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Preparing for Baby: 6 Reasons to Skip the Crib

Preparing for Baby: 6 Reasons to Skip the Crib


Every new mom can surely relate to the magnitude of questions that one is presented with when having that mama glow and darling baby bump.

“Are you having a boy or a girl?”
“Honey, have you decided on a name yet?”
“Will you be using cloth diapers?”
“What theme are you doing in the nursery?”
“Did you get your crib yet?”

And the list goes on and on.

Now I should note, I was one of those moms who absolutely adored being pregnant. I opted for shirts that were nice and snug, putting my bump right in the limelight. With that, it was very obvious that I was expecting which made the questions come flooding my way right from the start.

I couldn’t go anywhere without someone asking me something about baby.

And while I was able to skirt the questions and make light of most, the ones that really shook me up and gave me angst were surprisingly in relation to the nursery.

I didn’t have the slightest clue what I wanted to do. Aren’t moms supposed to feel all “nesty” and stuff? That wasn’t me.

More times than I can count, I would fill up my Amazon shopping basket with beautiful items for the perfect nursery, only to empty it out moments later.

Even though the pressure was high, there was something so unsettling to me about committing to such a mainstream designed room.

At 28 weeks, my husband, who was admittedly feeling the pressure, too, made me venture with him to one of those big box stores in search of our nursery furniture. He thought we could at the very least start there, and then fill in the rest of the gaps later.

We walked from crib to crib for what seemed like days. Finally, he suggested we take a break and relax in the neighboring rockers. As I sat there, feeling defeated, I was overcome with a thought, “why do we need any of this?”

I realized in that moment, that I could not and would not be buying baby a crib. I didn’t know exactly why yet, but there was something tugging away at me, telling me that it just wasn’t right for me. It wasn’t right for us.

And that was that.

My husband wanted “research” supporting what he, at the time, thought was just an irrational, emotionally driven, pregnant brain decision.

At this time in my life, being somewhat familiar with the Montessori philosophy, I immediately began researching crib-less rooms – specifically the idea of simply having a mattress on the floor (known in Montessori as the floor bed).

The more I dug, the more I was intrigued. The floor bed made so much sense. Yes, it was different and “weird” in comparison to my all my friends’ adorable (and very perfect) nurseries, but I couldn’t argue with the facts I was finding.

As you may have guessed, we went against the grain and chose the floor bed (which was an organic twin mattress) for our son’s room. Now 19 months into parenthood, I am even more convinced that it was the best decision we could have made for him.

If you are on the fence about going mainstream with your nursery, consider these six reasons to skip the crib.

1. Cribs aren’t exactly safe.

We are trained to believe that the crib is the safest place for baby to sleep. I’m not convinced… While much regulation has been put in place to address the structural deficiencies of cribs, still thousands of babies die each year falling into the side rails and suffocating. Even more children are hurt when they begin to try and climb out of them. Less obvious, yet just as dangerous, our government doesn’t adequately regulate the chemicals used on the baby furniture. There’s much scientific evidence that off-gassing of chemicals known as volatile organic compounds (VOCs), from furniture, which have been linked to a range of diseases and conditions, such as asthma, cancer, immune disorders, etc., when being inhaled even in low concentrations over a long period of time. This is not okay!

2. Cribs are confining.

Cribs are confining and don’t allow the child the freedom to fully explore their environment.  The idea behind a Montessori floor bed is in line with the general principles of the Montessori Method: a child should have freedom of movement, and should be able to move independently around his (carefully childproofed!) room.

3. Cribs are uninspiring.

“A crib is not an inspiring place for an infant,” writes Montessori Experts Paula Polk Lillard and Lynn Lillard Jessen. Think about it for a minute… The view from the crib is mostly “cage” or “jail-like” bars.  That’s no way for sweet babes to take in this brand new world.  A floor bed allows him to explore his environment visually, until he is able to physically.

4. Cribs limit independence.

Allowing for freedom of choice between sleep and play allows the child to explore his own environment when he so chooses. It is important to remember that the prepared environment plays a key role in this process. Make sure that accessible objects and toys are safe and attainable. We want to foster independence and allow for movement within the room. After all, a crib’s main benefit is making the parents job easier and not necessarily helping to shape your child to become independent and purposeful. We don’t want to hear those cries from “baby jail,” just giggles as they explore and engage with their environment.

5. You can’t snuggle together in a crib.

Having a bed on the floor makes all the difference. Let’s face it, you can’t really crawl into the crib and cuddle, breastfeed (or bottle feed) your baby comfortably. It’s simply not realistic. Babies were meant to be next to mama or daddy. Having a mattress on the floor makes life easy!

6. Non-toxic cribs are extremely expensive.

As a natural health advocate, I was highly discouraged to discover that not only are most cribs toxic, but that the “safe” ones are extremely expensive and hard to find. They do exist, but will cost you an average of $1,000 – that’s not even including the organic mattress!

Every day parents all around the globe are amazed by the advantages of a Montessori education for their children. Skipping the crib is one simple way to embrace Montessori from birth.  Your little one will relish in hands-on learning and self-discovery.  This will only mark the beginning of a beautiful journey to independence!

If you are looking for permission to skip the crib, consider it granted.  Remember, only you can decide what’s best for baby!

Here’s another great article on the topic.


Some Toughts (7)

  1. Theodora C.
    added on 12 Feb, 2015

    Thanks, Tonya, for this article. I had difficulty in making my husband accept a floor bed with our first baby, so we kept her in a crib for her first 6 months, until he finally agreed with me that the floor bed was the way to go. Yes, a crib was what everybody expected, but it limited our baby’s movement so much during her sleep that most of the time she woke up with her feet or hands trapped between the rails, or stuck in a corner of the crib. The moment we switched to a floor bed she slept better. And the best part was that she could get out of bed all by herself and come looking for me, instead of crying and waiting for me to get to her.
    With a second baby on the way, this article is a reminder of those first 6 months of struggle for our first born (though we kept her in the crib only during sleep/nap time) and it gives me a head’s up for the new nursery planning.

    • Tonya Holcomb
      added on 19 Feb, 2015

      Hi Theodora! I am so glad you made your husband a believer! Congratulations on sweet baby! ~Tonya

  2. Rebecca
    added on 15 May, 2015

    Thank you, Tonya, for the article. I’ve always disliked that prison-cell look of cribs. I plan to co-sleep at first, but what age is good to start a floor crib?
    We’re already not telling family we’re home-birthing; telling my in laws (who said they want to buy the crib) we aren’t going to use a crib will definitely raise comments & judgements.

    • Tonya Holcomb
      added on 23 May, 2015

      Hi Rebecca! I’m so happy for you that you are co-sleeping and having a home birth! You are going to gift you and your sweet babes with an incredible experience! I still co-sleep at night and my son is almost two (it’s truly one of the greatest gifts, but we will likely make the transition to floor bed for night time when he is able to communicate using words better so I know he “gets” why we are making the transition, it could be a six months to a year from now). You could introduce the floor bed at the beginning for naps! And the nice thing is, that you can lay down on the bed too if you need some shut eye! We had a side sleeper that I used in the beginning for naps, but with next babes, I will immediately just use the floor bed when I need too! There’s truly zero need for a crib! If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to write me at tonya@likemindedmamas.com. Keep on trusting that intuition of yours, mama! ~Tonya 🙂

  3. Abigail Olsen
    added on 15 May, 2015

    Hi Tonya, I am just starting out on this research on floor beds and I have a quick question for you. I am having my first baby in November and I am wondering if I should start with a floor bed right from the start? I have read about some moms co-sleeping, but I’d prefer not to. Should I use a crib for the first few months and then switch? What did you do with your kids?

    Thank you!!

    • Tonya Holcomb
      added on 23 May, 2015

      Hi Abigail,
      Congrats to you mama! I just wanted to first clarify, co-sleeping can mean a couple things. It can me sleeping with the baby in your bed or having a bed for baby next to yours. Both options are extremely beneficial to babes. I co-slept and had a sleeper next to our bed for the first five months (for naps mostly) or so, then transitioned to a floor bed (for naps only) and still co-sleep today (he’s almost two). So, if you aren’t comfortable sleeping with your child, I would suggest having a side-sleeper or a floor bed in your room at least in the beginning. Here’s a couple of articles on more details as to why: http://www.alternative-mama.com/co-sleeping-why-and-how/ and http://www.drmomma.org/2011/02/seven-benefits-of-cosleeping.html — BUT, in short to answer your question, you do not “need” a crib! Just an organic mattress 🙂 If you do have a side sleeper to start, I really liked the Arm’s Reach brand. I hope this helps! If you have additional questions, please go ahead and email me at tonya@likemindedmamas.com.

  4. added on 17 Sep, 2016

    Fantastic to read a different viewpoint on baby cribs. Definitely going to have a better look into the points you made, especially about non-toxic cribs!

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